What I make of the people around

Finally I am able to get a topic for my post :-)..I see people faking a lot..mostly not intended towards harming others.But its just that they pretend to be in a state in which they would 'like' to be.Trivial matters like putting up a busy tag on their chat window even when they are eagerly waiting for someone to ping them.Its because they want to show that they are busy.People write things in their 'about me' which even the author himself finds it difficult to comprehend.They think it adds depth to their character.Some like to be tagged confused as it gives them the excuse to do certain things.Again there are others who wears an assured look even when he is a truely confused soul.Most of these pretensions,I feel,are done subconsciously.But the point is that it makes things hell lot complicated.It would have been a lot simpler had we said what's in our mind,behaved exactly the way we feel like.Why can't we just accept the life god has given us ??You don't care about that street beggar..so be it.Why would you want to show that you care??In trying to portray ourselves as that ideal(whatever the concept of'ideal' is) man/woman we tend to mistreat our real selves.
Just two more lines off the context..we generally criticize when we see something bad.But do we praise with the same enthusiasm when we see something good ?? Everyday we get to hear things like the world has become a bad place to live in,there is too much hatred etc.I fail to agree to this notion.Nobody wants to harm others.Its just that he wants his own good.There's too much love as compared to hatred and its there for all to see.We just need to be a bit forgiving,a bit considerate and a bit more honest.:-)